It’s the ten year anniversary of Laura and I’s wedding today (and next month will be the ten year anniversary of her passing) . As I sat to write this post, the light beside me started flashing wildly. That’s Laura’s bat signal. She hasn’t flashed the lights in years, but she has great timing.

The last few weeks she has been very present. I’ve found pennies everywhere. Laura loved to pick up pennies in the street. I didn’t. But now they make me smile. A little copper wink from the ‘other side’. Oh and there have been heart shapes appearing everywhere too.

I was thinking recently it’s a shame I can’t hear Laura talk to me anymore. In the early years after she died, I heard her so clearly in my head. Barely had the thought crossed my mind when a loud voice interrupted my thoughts ‘YES! YOU CAN!!!’ It said. I burst out laughing. Well, that told me. Told me that love never dies. It simply changes form.